How to Use Sex Toys in BDSM Role Play

Development potential exists in many life situations – including in terms of sex. These tips on anal hooks and BDSM will make your orgasm even more phenomenal.

Use sex toys

You have difficulty getting to the peak of sex? Then try out, if the sex with toys improves for you. Vibrators can once again stimulate in a completely different way than your partner. A try or more is definitely worth it!

Talk to your partner

Communication is the alpha and omega of sex. Tell your partner what you like and do not be afraid to talk to him about your most intimate desires. Only then can he understand what you really want and need in bed.

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Train your pelvic floor

Pelvic floor training can significantly improve the quality of sex – and thus the success of an orgasm. Try it!

Meditate

Do not get me wrong. During sex you should not meditate. But: who meditates more often, can relax better and therefore also fall during sex rather which also helps: Targeted respiratory training or progressive muscle relaxation. Hello orgasm!

Put on masturbation

One of the best ways to exercise your body, to have good orgasms, is masturbation. A vibrator is a penis replacement for lonely women. An idea of ??the day before yesterday! For today’s gently buzzing sex toys do not just want to make you, but your partner happy too. Partner Toys are designed to be shared by couples during lovemaking. These can be special partner vibrators, massagers or even small aids such as cock rings – with and without vibration. In this way you not only bring new fun and variety in your sex life, but experience together even more intense feelings!

Partner-Vibrator

The classic pair of toys! The longer end is inserted vaginally while the shorter side is on the clitoris. The ergonomically shaped end not only stimulates the G-spot, but leaves enough room for his best piece. Slightly water-based lubricant makes insertion easier.

Penis ring

Penis rings are primarily small tools that help to strengthen the erection. The elastic rings are pulled over the half-penis and thanks to their slight blood-blocking effect they provide more stamina!

Finger vibrator

Massaging, caressing or gentle teasing – everything we do with our hands becomes even more beautiful and sparkling with these little toys. The vibrating toys are simply pulled over the fingers and invite you to a particularly teasing expedition on the body of the partner.

Toy with remote control

Intimate fun with a surprise effect! Remote-controlled toys, such as vibrating eggs, can be worn discreetly anywhere and can be easily controlled by yourself or by your partner via remote control. That guarantees lustful moments and little power games – wherever you are!

Massage Toys

Whether to relax after a hard day or as a particularly tender foreplay: a massage promotes the feeling of togetherness and togetherness through the intense skin contact. Small massage aids and fragrant oils make the massage even more intense and arouse the appetite for more.

What is the difference between a vibrator and a dildo?

Many customers with us hold everything for a dildo. But a vibrator is more than that: a dildo with a motor. The toy vibrates and you can adjust the intensity depending on your personal taste. The toys with us have between eight and 24 stages.

What can a vibrator do, what a penis cannot do?

The vibration also stimulates it and some models can indulge independently of the clitoris and the vagina and have an extra motor for both. For the clitoris some vibrators have an extra attachment. There are now electronic stimulation vibrators as a growing sex toy tech trend.

Which model is the most popular?

With us it is vibrator “Miss Bi”. But more important is to take a device that is tailored to individual needs.

How do you find the right sex toy for yourself?

It’s best to ask yourself the following question: “What’s the highlight?” Do you come to the masturbation rather vaginal or clitoral to orgasm? Do you want to stimulate the G point or the A point that sits near the cervix? For every orgasm there is the right toy.

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Are men afraid of vibrators?

Yes. Frequently, in addition to women, couples also come to us. The men often ask if a sex toy will not replace them in the end. Some men do not feel so good and actually pull their partner to the sex toys, which have fewer functions.

How do I integrate the partner?

Best, you show him that his fear is unfounded. It is true that since 2015 sex shop industry also has a toy that can perform pushing movements, the “Bi Stronic Fusion”. But the man, like any other vibrator, can lead him to pamper his partner. Some men find that extremely stimulating. Incidentally, most couples do not use sex toys as a substitute, but simply out of curiosity or to re-stimulate their sex life. Some couples playfully approach the use, for example during foreplay. Some women, however, come only with the vibrator to orgasm and therefore use it during sex.

Are there any sex toys for both?

Yes, so-called couple toys like the curved “Share-vibe”, which stimulates both. The woman introduces him to the vagina, while the man penetrates his anus with it.

Is there also a sex toy for men?

Yes. The vibrators can of course also use men anal. If we have built up a relaxed atmosphere of conversation, even heterosexual men explicitly ask for it. Men have also started to learn how to use male chastity devices to spice up their BDSM roleplay.

How do you clean the sex toys?

All devices are made of silicone, so you should not use any detergent that comes with alcohol. It is best to wash it with warm water and an intimate soap. Sex shop also have the “Toy Cleaner”, a disinfectant spray on offer.

What is better: shopping at the store or on the internet?

The answer is definitely in the store. On the Internet you cannot feel the strength of the vibration of a sex toy and it is difficult to judge. But you have to hold the device in your hand and feel the vibration, because you cannot exchange or return the article after the purchase.

Do you have to be inhibited to go to a store?

No. Sex shops have almost only sales people, that takes the inhibitions, also has the store a stylish, casual atmosphere and nothing in common with a conventional sex shop. Sex shops offer the customers the “you”, so quickly creates a familiar atmosphere of conversation, which makes it easy to talk about wishes and needs.